overcoming overeating.


Hi babes!
Okay first- ya'll know I've been feeling overalls lately, and now I found a PINK PAIR!!
You can shop them HERE!
Ps they're only drum roll please...
$8.99!!!!!!
And second how cute is this black and white striped bad from Seaport Stitches?!
I'm kinda obsessed with black and white- I mean who isn't?
And it's perfect for Halloween!!
Okay now back to my post-
just had to share!



So today I quickly want to touch on something that has helped me a bunch lately-
and that's called being mindful.
When it comes to this whole fitness journey-
the workout part is easy for me!
Just get to the gym, do what my BBG app says and bust it out.
DONE.
But eating-
whole other ball game.
Restaurants, family dinners, BBQ's on the beach, parties, fall treats, baking, birthdays and Disneyland!
Food is everywhere!!
And so delicious.
And shouldn't be thought of as a negative thing!
But sometimes you really can't control what you get to eat when put in some of the above situations, and equally sometimes you can- which is even harder to navigate.


So about a couple months ago I started to really think about everything I would eat-
why am I eating this?
Am I hungry. stressed, tired or have a sweet tooth?
Is this really what I want to eat or am I just eating it because it's in front of me?
Do I want to put that cookie in my body?
Yep- I tracked it in my fitness pal!
Or.
No- I can have something else with less sugar that fits in my calories.
I realize I might sound crazy, or this might seem obvious..
but for me taking just a slight second to think about my choices has worked wonders.
When I'm at a restaurant ordering- I think okay Sid you don't need alllllllll these chips and allllllll the guac.
Just have a couple and that's it!
You can have a snack at home if you're still hungry.
And little talks like this have made me feel a million times better!


I enter all my foods for the day into my fitness pal each morning, I keep my breakfast, lunch and afternoon snack and late night snack the same everyday and then when dinner hits {it's the most varied meal for us} I am in control, think through my food choices and end up feeling satisfied and not overly stuffed like I just binged 7 slices of pizza.
It takes a lot of control, support {thanks babe for not tempting me} and self love-
but being mindful and intentional about what you put in your body will be a game changer.
It's all mental- and once you get a hold of your emotions {I'm totally an emotional eater} things really start to get easier!
So just know if you ever struggle with overeating during social situations, late nights at home or when you're super stressed-
you're not alone.
I'm right here with yah!

xoxo

six comfy sweaters under 20 bucks.


Happy Monday!
Ps this pic has nothing to do with the post..
just dreaming of Disney on this not so fun Monday.
Man you guys-
between Zak being around sick kiddos in a hospital, 
and Liam hanging out in childcare at the gym each morning-
we have been getting sick every month!
And we used to never get sick!
Today both Zak and I woke up with sore throats and runny noses, poor Liam can't sleep cuz his belly hurts aka no naps and Zak worked from like 5:00 am-8:00 pm-
soooo it was a long day.
And we didn't make it to the gym.
So here's to late night shopping/Halloween costume idea brainstorming and hoping that tomorrow {Zak's only day off this week} we wake up refreshed and feeling better!
Cuz ain't nobody got time to be sick!
Anywho!
When I'm sick I cuddle up in big ole sweatshirts-
I love wearing them all fall long!
So here are 6 cuties I found at Shein for under 20 bucks!
Woot woot!


1. Raglan Sleeve Slogan Print Sweatshirt



2 Elastic Cuff Cardigan With Pockets



3. Fuzzy Cardigan Sweater With Pockets



4. Grey Drop Shoulder Textured Sweater



5. Drop Shoulder High Low Knitwear



6. Contrast Pocket Dip Hem Marled Knit Sweater


Have a great night loves!!
And hope you're feeling a bit better than our household!

xoxo

september 10 things I love.



Hiii!!
Okay here's my September 10 things I love right now!!

1. This cutie striped cover up! It's beach time all the time here so I'm in love with it! Also could pass for a beach-y sailor costume for Halloween!
Win win!

2. This pumpkin candle is one of my faves! It's a little pricey- but it's my "treat" every fall!

3. When we see any ambulance, police car, fire truck or anything with lights Liam yells- "weeoweeeo!"
And a lot of times if the driver's see him wave- they'll flash the sirens and MAKE HIS DAY!
People are the best!!

4.  This welcome mat from Target- classic for fall!
Oh and can we talk about how MAGNOLIA HOME IS COMING TO TARGET IN NOVEMBER!
Cannot. Wait. 

5. The Vanished podcast- anyone who likes true crime, this ones for you?!
I love listening while cleaning lol.


6. PINTEREST!! I mean, nothing says fall like pinning my favorite recipes, costume ideas and spooky home decor! Follow me so I can follow you!

7. Arctic Zero pumpkin swirl ice cream- a fall goodie, peanut butter fans unite!



8. These string lights to hang outside! They're gorg- and my project for this weekend!

9. Anything and everything from Pigment! This store is only blocks from my house and sooooo dangerous! And since it was our birthday month I stopped in a bunch- I mean the party supplies alone is beyond amazing!!


10. These Halloween cards from Rifle Paper Co- I NEED THEM ALL! Cough cough Zakary if you're reading this, they're 15% off and the orange cat one is amazing. 


Well there yah have it- just some stuff I've been loving this month!
Happy weekend friends!

xoxo

august life update.


Hi loves!
I know I know.. 
this says August life update and it's almost October...
but bear with me!
We were traveling at the end of August, then went camping, 
had a bunch of other fun posts to share and I'm just now getting around to my August life photo dump!


But to just recap for a second!
Zak was working in the NICU- which wasn't too bad hours wise.
However we did take advantage of his off days and sure made them count!
We..
Went to Urban Jungle
Ate chips and guac and Chipotle
Had a few Target dates
And had to take a trip to Barnes and Noble!




Liam and I also had one of the best days ever together!
We went to the cutest Liberty Station {highly recommend if you're ever in SD},
got a big boy hair cut while sitting in a "weeoweeo" police car, 
shared ice cream and just explored together.
Oh and then met daddy for dinner.
Just a really really really good day.






I literally cannot handle his cuteness!!!








We also explored Balboa Park one afternoon!
We live literally three houses down from it, 
so we've tried to take advantage of all it has to offer!
Confession: I still haven't been to the zoo!
But don't worry- Zak takes Liam all the time!




Oh yeah and we spent a morning at the Del Mar racetrack too!
You can read all about it here!




Ps also if you're a mama in SD with littles under 5- the Fleet Science Center is a must go!!
We even snagged a year pass- totally worth it!




We also relaxed and took a little stay-cation one afternoon.
Liam was loving it!
You can read all about it here!





We managed to snag a few dates too!
Shout out to the best sitter EVER!!
We tried a new Mexican restaurant in North Park-
Ranchos Cocina and LOVED it!
They have an entire vegan menu-
woot woot!




And on another night we hit up a fun Luau in Mission Bay-
it was so delicious!
You can read about it here!


And then when on a "friends" date aka went to dinner on the beach with friends who don't have kiddos lol.
We're so grateful for our new pediatric friends- seriously such a fun group of people!



I started sharing some more fun outfit posts-
ps thank you for the feedback!
I love finding good sales and sharing them with yah!


Liam and I went on a few ice cream dates with friends in North Park!
Baby loves ice cream like his mama!
I also started going to a woman's bible study group with some other medical Navy spouses-
and it's been so fulfilling.
Finding support and a great group of ladies is key!




Liam and I also discovered a new park {Tidelands Park on Coronado Island}-
it's perfect for littles!
And has the best view of downtown San Diego!




He's pretty much just my little best friend and side kick!
He's the best helper, best adventurer, best walker, and best player.
Just the perfect little baby and I love him so much.
The other day a lady stopped us and said, 
"you can just tell he's a happy baby! He's so happy!"
And that is not only the 100% truth-
but the best compliment someone can give.
Liam is a happy happy babe and I don't know how we got so lucky!


We also tried a few firsts like...
- having a sous chef on the kitchen counter while I cook
- playing in the hose
- baking cookies
- making daddy's sandwiches everyday
- practicing "sharing" with our friends
- and getting really good at eating solo!



The first two weeks of August were very hard to say the least.
Poor Liam had a 105- yes FIVE degree temperature and an ear infection.
So scary and just so thankful he's better!
Then during the last two weeks him and I took a road trip-
yep I drove six hours solo with a toddler...
to Arizona!



We...
- saw family
- surprised friends
- had a few staycations
- ate banana splits at the Sugar Bowl
- met Aunt Kelcy's big dogs
- played with cousins
- saw rooster's at my mom's house
And just had the best time seeing all our loved ones!
And good news- everyone is now coming to see us within the next month!
So yayayay for visitors!!






Oh yes and I treated myself with a very large Diet Coke too!




It was a fun month {minus the beginning}!
Filled with adventures, travels, dates and ice cream!
And September has been even better!
Maybe because it's Zak and I's bday month?!
Anywho!
I'll be sharing some more life updates soon!

Thanks again for following along on my little ole blog!
You the best!

xoxo